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		<title>Don&#8217;t Look Like a Fool: Your Online Resume</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2009/02/dont-look-like-a-fool-your-online-resume/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The blending of real world networking and online social networking can be the difference between getting your first interview and getting your first job.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>College students about to enter the workforce during these weak economic times have an opportunity to control what their potential employers <em>will know</em> and <em>need to know</em> about them-<a href="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/94300411_d59450be73_m1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-76" title="Fool" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/94300411_d59450be73_m1.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="202" /></a> at least more than a paper resume could ever show. It wasn&#8217;t so long ago that I was applying for my job and I relied predominately on a piece of 8 1/2 x 11 1/2 piece of paper.</p>
<p>I crammed as much text as possible onto that resume. My reputation lay in the hands of the information I presented here and maybe the three individuals I list at the bottom as references.</p>
<p>If Barrack Obama taught us anything over the course of his campaign it was how influential an online resume can be. He built an online network unlike any other and used it to supplement his traditional campaign.</p>
<p>In the end, he used social media to get the job, so-to-speak.</p>
<p>The blending of real world networking and online social networking can be the difference between getting your first interview and getting your first job.</p>
<p>For the seniors in college, I encourage you to think about hard your facebook profile and yes, delete pictures that put your reputation in question. Share your life online, share your experiences, but share wisely.</p>
<p>Your employers will google you.</p>
<p>Those results are your new resume.</p>
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<p>Mike Toner is a freelance web designer from Arlington, Virginia. During the day he works as a Web Content Manager for CSC. By evening, he&#8217;s a husband, dog owner and runner. Toner writes about Social Media, SEO and overall online visibility as well as digital marketing trends.</p>
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		<title>Self-Responsibility</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2008/06/self-responsibility/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MikeToner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been thinking and talking a lot about self-responsibility lately. I think we can all agree that the things we choose to do each day are all to often the result of a habit. I could outline my entire morning routine, you could too I’m sure. Our morning routines are made entirely out of habit....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.cartoonstock.com/lowres/mba0385l.jpg"><img style="float:left;cursor:hand;width:200px;margin:0 10px 10px 0;" src="http://www.cartoonstock.com/lowres/mba0385l.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />I’ve been thinking and talking a lot about <span style="font-weight:bold;">self-responsibility</span> lately. I think we can all agree that the things we choose to do each day are all to often the result of a habit. I could outline my entire morning routine, you could too I’m sure. Our morning routines are made entirely out of habit. Alarm, Snooze, Shower, Brush Teeth, Coffee&#8230;etc.</p>
<p>Now, what happens when something affects your routine? What is your first response if the shower is cold? What about if the alarm didn’t go off? Do you think negatively? Is it someone else’s fault?</p>
<p>Life has its daily challenges and while we are all faced with difficulties, I believe we must find ways to understand that <span style="font-style:italic;">life is not meant to be a struggle.</span> Life should be enjoyed and you have the opportunity to succeed everyday.</p>
<p>I realize that avoiding negativity is hard. Change is hard, even if it’s over quickly- but the more you know what your larger goals are the less the little defeats will affect your overall mindset. You can always <a href="http://improvingpeople.blogspot.com/2008/05/self-control-or-self-responsibility.html">choose</a> to focus on the positive</p>
<p>“<a href="http://mike-toner.blogspot.com/">It’s All Good</a>!” is meant to outline my daily experiences and hopefully offer some insight into the way I approach and learn from the people and situations I encounter in my daily life.</p>
<p>It is a true learning experience to understand and believe that <a href="http://mike-toner.blogspot.com/2007/11/method-affects-effect.html">methods affects effect</a> and outcomes depend on actions.</p>
<p>How you live your life everyday is determined by the <a href="http://tripppurks.wordpress.com/2008/02/01/new-year-feburary-resolutions/">goals</a> you set and how you hold yourself responsible for meeting those goals, despite any small bumps in your path.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/the-power-of-personal-leadership/">Be responsible.</a></p>
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		<title>Dependence, Independence &amp; Interdependence</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2008/02/dependence-independence-interdependence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 03:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MikeToner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As children, each of us relied on a caretaker to feed and clothe us. Our parents and grandparents had to know how we felt at any given time despite that children are often unable to verbalize such feelings. We were each dependent on someone else at some point in our life. As we grow older,...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As children, each of us relied on a caretaker to feed and clothe us.  Our parents and grandparents had to know how we felt at any given time despite that children are often unable to verbalize such feelings. We were each dependent on someone else at some point in our life.</p>
<p>As we grow older, perhaps peaking in the teenage years, we each seek out our own identity, separate from those who have cared for us. We establish our independence and slowly break ties with those we orginally depended on. Teenagers are often unable to relate their feelings to their orginal caregivers. </p>
<p>The middle stage lasts the longest, but it is the transition from independence to <span style="font-style:italic;">interdependence</span> where we each must look for help and support from those around us. It is not unusual to never reach true interdependency. The humility necessary to ask for help and the openness to share ones feelings with loved ones is difficult for some.</p>
<p>Move towards interdependency.</p>
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