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		<title>Be The Challenger</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 17:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even when I was younger I was always questioning the process of everything. This habit led me to seek out and follow the process and those implementing the policies &#38; procedures around me. Who were these people in charge? Whether in university leadership programs or professional associations I have taken an interest in the steering [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="reflect" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3311/3673584971_5ceb555487.jpg" alt="Change starts from within. by phillippppp." width="476" height="259" /></p>
<p>Even when I was younger I was always <strong>questioning the process of everything.</strong> This habit led me to seek out and follow the process and those implementing the policies &amp; procedures around me.</p>
<p><strong><em>Who were these people in charge?</em></strong></p>
<p>Whether in university leadership programs or professional associations I have taken an interest in the steering mechanisms behind my surroundings. By following the paths of leaders I have found the movers &amp; shakers in my communities and given myself the opportunity to analyze the process &amp; situations within each.</p>
<p>Ghandi said, &#8220;Be the Change&#8221;- I say, &#8220;Be the Challenger&#8221;- <strong>question the working parts, analyze the tasks at hand, look for and recognize inefficiencies in the process and address the policies and procedures that are not working.</strong></p>
<p>Being the Challenger isn&#8217;t about pointing out the negative. It also means recognizing and building on strengths. Your own strengths, the strengths of others and the strengths of the situations. Bring these together and focus on those few things that work well and function best.</p>
<p><strong>What do you challenge?</strong></p>
<p>-Mike Toner</p>
<p><a href="http://www.miketoner.com">www.miketoner.com</a></p>
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		<title>Dive Into the Social SOUP</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2009/04/dive-into-the-social-soup/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 10:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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<p>For those who think facebook is the extent of your online persona &#8211; think again. We are entering a new era and those migrating into social networks are quickly learning how to communicate online.</p>
<p>I like the idea that we are collectively learning and <span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.thoughtsfrommeggiepoo.com/2009/03/facebook-is-great-and-theyre-not-gonna.html" target="_blank">brainstorming</a></em></strong> </span>how to use social media. Do you think it is a learned skill&#8230;?</p>
<p><a href="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/454373143_c3c1889bb3_m.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-82" title="Neon Spiral" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/454373143_c3c1889bb3_m.jpg" alt="" width="290" height="217" /></a><span id="btAsinTitle">In <em>Here Comes Everybody: The Power of Organizing Without Organizations</em>,</span><span> <strong><em><a href="http://www.shirky.com/" target="_blank">Clay Shirky</a></em></strong><span class="tiny"> discusses the mass amateurization that comes with social media and </span></span>what &#8220;happens when people are given the tools to do things together, without needing traditional organizational structures.&#8221;</p>
<p><span><span class="tiny">So, are you ready to dive in?<br />
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<h3>S is for Social</h3>
<p>Social Media has given individuals an online platform to facilitate the sharing of information. We share ideas, songs, powerpoints- you name it, you can find opinions and ideas about that topic online and this information is now within your social network.</p>
<h3>O is for Openness</h3>
<p>The social web encourages transparency. There is no way to hide what you say online, everything is searchable and archived. The Freedom of Information age is upon us.</p>
<h3>U is for Ubiquitos</h3>
<p>Access will be mobile, allowing for constant interacting among individuals through virtual, online portals.</p>
<h3>P is for Privacy</h3>
<p>The internet and the information being gathered by google, facebook, linkedin, <strong><em><a href="http://www.gist.com" target="_blank">gist</a></em></strong> and twitter is a gold mine for marketers who want to <strong><em><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/05/science/05mobile.html" target="_blank">anticipate our next move</a> </em></strong>and find creative uses of GPS enabled location-tracking devices, like cell phones. When and where I&#8217;ll be hungry is a great place for a sidewalk lunch-special sign, isnt it?</p>
<p>What does all this lead to?</p>
<p>Well, it leads to the to optimization of the optimizer or <strong><em><a href="http://logicerror.com/timsDream" target="_blank">a place where machines can analyze all the data on the Web</a></em></strong>, and <strong><em><a href="http://computer.howstuffworks.com/web-30.htm" target="_blank">computers behave like personal assistants</a> </em></strong>and ultimately can respond to my questions and recommend my likes and dislikes based upon our prior behavior.</p>
<p>What is your next move online?</p>
<p>-Mike</p>
<p>www.MikeToner.com</p>
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		<title>Rounding a Social Media Curve</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2009/03/rounding-social-media-curve/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 11:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Social Media is about engagement, right? Yes, but maybe you started off with social media the way I did; quietly listening while learning the ropes, lurking and not really being social at all! In fact, my first tweet was on October, 26th 2007. Great, except- I sent 15 tweets in the first month and not [...]]]></description>
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<p>Social Media is about engagement, right?</p>
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<p>Yes, but maybe you started off with social media the way I did; quietly listening while learning the ropes, lurking and not really being social at all!</p>
<p>In fact, my <a href="http://myfirsttweet.com/1st/miketoner">first tweet</a> was on October, 26th 2007. Great, except- I sent 15 tweets in the first month and not one was an @ message! I wasn&#8217;t talking to anyone&#8230; I wasn&#8217;t there yet.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnmueller/145557054/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-80" title="Dangerous Curves" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/145557054_174bed06c4-300x216.jpg" alt="by Extra Medium" width="316" height="227" /></a></p>
<p>Today, I am somewhere between participation and relationship building with regards to social media. I&#8217;ve made the <a href="http://mixtmedia.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/social-media-adoption-curve2.png">mind shift</a> from 1-way to 2-way, although I sometimes find myself reverting back to my old 1-way ways.</p>
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<p>My ultimate goal is to, &#8220;Share more value with the blogosphere than [I] you take from the blogosphere&#8221;-<a href=" http://mixtmedia.wordpress.com/2008/11/12/social-media-adoption-curve/#comments"> </a>mixmedia</p>
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<p>This almost implies tuning out a little, doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>In order to concentrate on providing value, I may need to block out some of the noise. Perhaps stepping out of the <a href="http://www.socialmediaexplorer.com/2009/02/03/the-social-media-echo-chamber-makes-me-not-want-to-listen/">echo chamber</a> will allow me to focus on the task at hand.  A Tim Ferriss&#8217;esque idea -no doubt.</p>
<p>During my own adoption of social media, I focused heavily on <a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/5-starter-moves-listening-and-hearing-come-before-speaking/">reading</a> and <a href="http://www.engageinpr.com/2008/09/11/listen-social-media/">listening</a>, so much so- that this has become a comfort zone for me to run back to. Recently, I have stopped reading <a href="http://www.google.com/reader/shared/13853100474754940861">my google reader</a> everyday. Instead, I am going to do some thinking of my own and stop relying on old meme&#8217;s to create new content.</p>
<p>I hope that by eliminating distractions I will be able to provide quality information and value to my network.</p>
<p>Where are you on the social media curve?</p>
<p>-MikeToner</p>
<p>www.MikeToner.com</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Look Like a Fool: Your Online Resume</title>
		<link>http://miketoner.com/2009/02/dont-look-like-a-fool-your-online-resume/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The blending of real world networking and online social networking can be the difference between getting your first interview and getting your first job.]]></description>
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<p>College students about to enter the workforce during these weak economic times have an opportunity to control what their potential employers <em>will know</em> and <em>need to know</em> about them-<a href="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/94300411_d59450be73_m1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-76" title="Fool" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/94300411_d59450be73_m1.jpg" alt="" width="240" height="202" /></a> at least more than a paper resume could ever show. It wasn&#8217;t so long ago that I was applying for my job and I relied predominately on a piece of 8 1/2 x 11 1/2 piece of paper.</p>
<p>I crammed as much text as possible onto that resume. My reputation lay in the hands of the information I presented here and maybe the three individuals I list at the bottom as references.</p>
<p>If Barrack Obama taught us anything over the course of his campaign it was how influential an online resume can be. He built an online network unlike any other and used it to supplement his traditional campaign.</p>
<p>In the end, he used social media to get the job, so-to-speak.</p>
<p>The blending of real world networking and online social networking can be the difference between getting your first interview and getting your first job.</p>
<p>For the seniors in college, I encourage you to think about hard your facebook profile and yes, delete pictures that put your reputation in question. Share your life online, share your experiences, but share wisely.</p>
<p>Your employers will google you.</p>
<p>Those results are your new resume.</p>
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		<title>Act Right!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 12:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a follow up to my thoughts from Monday&#8217;s post on customer service. I believe that every conversation with a potential customer is a representation of the larger organization; you are now acting as the company. In the same way, every performance for a stage actor is a representation of the way the playwright [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/43067379@N00/422005809/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-70" title="Shakespeare" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/422005809_f79aa47065_m.jpg" alt="To be, Or not be " width="240" height="160" /></a>This is a follow up to my thoughts from <a href="http://miketoner.com/2009/01/make-every-performance-seem-like-the-first/">Monday&#8217;s post</a> on customer service.</p>
<p>I believe that every conversation with a potential customer is a representation of the larger organization; <em>you</em> are now acting as the company. In the same way, every performance for a stage actor is a representation of the way the playwright intended the script to be performed, mostly a larger depiction of reality.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Now lets take <a href="http://www.socialmediatoday.com/SMC/39468">customer service</a> as a new character role:                       <a title="Link to Tabbi Kat's photostream" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/43067379@N00/"><strong></strong></a></p>
<p><strong>Service Provider:</strong> <em>Not always seen as a hero, SP is the complicated antagonist of the play. After generations of observing good service he or she uses their experience, along with the desire to help to increase the position as a service provider. He or she is often forced to depend on the kindness of their customers.</em></p>
<p>On the flip side, it&#8217;s often difficult to <a href="http://www.yelp.com/search?find_desc=Good+Customer+service&amp;find_loc=Washington%2C+DC&amp;ns=1&amp;rpp=10">recognize good customer service</a> and even harder to BE A good customer. Yes, that&#8217;s right, as the customer you must be willing to listen and be receptive to the service offered to you.</p>
<p><strong>Customer: </strong><em>Often not ready for a new process or sequence and can be easily caught off guard. During his or her &#8216;demanding moments,&#8217; customer is at their worst. In contrast, the quieter times seem good and this leading character will willingly engage in an interchange of questions and answers with SP.</em></p>
<p>As an audience member, there are certain rules or etiquettes that should be followed by all parties involved. As with theatre, there is an expectation that the show will be professional.</p>
<p>Do you recognize good customer service? Moreover, are you good at being a customer?</p>
<p>What characteristics does each portray?</p>
<p>Photo by: <a title="Link to Tabbi Kat's photostream" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/43067379@N00/"><strong>Tabbi Kat</strong></a></p>
<p><a title="Link to Tabbi Kat's photostream" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/43067379@N00/"><strong></strong></a></p>
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		<title>Make Every Performance Seem Like the First</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I headed to the Kennedy Center last night for a show, I began thinking about the preparation involved in stage production and what an immense undertaking it is. The behind the scenes work takes months to produce a seemingly effortless result; the performance. I was always taught that the trick to acting is to [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://flickr.com/photos/sabekkas/2930049770/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-68" title="Kennedy Center Eisenhower Theater" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/2930049770_3e901fd3d4-199x300.jpg" alt="by Beck Exposed" width="199" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>As I headed to the <a href="http://www.kennedy-center.org">Kennedy Center</a> last night for a show, I began thinking about the preparation involved in stage production and what an immense undertaking it is. The behind the scenes work takes months to produce a seemingly effortless result; the performance.</p>
<p>I was always taught that the trick to <a href="http://www.jmu.edu/theatre/thabout.htm">acting</a> is to make each performance seem like the first time. To make each word and motion authentic to the moment, current and un-contrived.</p>
<p>I believe the same idea applies to real life and to business, especially from a customer service standpoint. Each interaction with a customer or client should feel real, not a <a title="Flip Video" href="http://www.amazon.com/tag/flip%20video/forum?_encoding=UTF8&amp;cdForum=Fx35KHX2SJ9X1WO&amp;cdThread=Tx2AFFBVQ2YKD5G">canned corporate answer</a> and definitely should not sound like a rehearsed script.</p>
<p>No matter the interaction, act as though you are the only personal contact that the customer has with your company. Be prepared and behave as though the entire company&#8217;s image depends on you.</p>
<p>More on this tomorrow&#8230;</p>
<p>Photo  			by: <a title="Link to Beck Exposed's photostream" href="http://flickr.com/photos/sabekkas/"><strong>Beck Exposed</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Self- Indulgent Marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 03:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do marketers avoid being persuaded by their own art? Or do marketers love the hypnosis that comes from their own craft? Over the past 3 years I’ve worked with a lot of marketing and PR professionals. As a result of the work I see happening around me I have become much more aware of my [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Do marketers avoid being persuaded by their own art?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Or do marketers love the hypnosis that comes from their own craft?<a href="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/2904230822_88cc0b5f46.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-63" title="McYummy" src="http://miketoner.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/2904230822_88cc0b5f46.jpg" alt="" width="298" height="291" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Over the past 3 years I’ve worked with a lot of marketing and PR professionals. As a result of the work I see happening around me I have become much more aware of my surroundings and the messages that are being sent to be from products and logos. Simultaneously, I have found myself analyzing and critiquing advertising campaigns.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I feel comfortable saying that most folks find a little enjoyment in making sure Apple doesn’t do something politically incorrect, or that Coca Cola doesn’t run into a communication crisis over water pollution or something, right?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We all want brands to do well- but not too well. I also think that fans of good branding campaigns enjoy that the message being received <em>by</em> them also says something <em>about</em> them.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But I wonder if marketers are a little too keen on the meanings of messages and ads they see in their everyday lives? Take McDonalds Olympic ads: I know that Olympians don’t eat McDonalds and drink soda. Or what about Gas and oil companies? We have all noticed an increasing amount of commercials and positive green campaigns. But- because I recognize the message being sent, what does that say about me? I still eat McDonalds. I still buy gas.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I think the <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Business/story?id=5574568">interview with Exxon’s CEO</a>, Rex Tillerman was one of the best examples of a company explaining themselves. He said his job is to provide, fast and reliable energy.”- That’s it- Not to save the world. Remember, he wants to get paid just like you and I &#8211; and I think he was correct in saying this isn’t up to just Exxon.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Consumers have the power. If we continue to buy cars that run on gas -we fuel the flames- so to speak. He explains that there is not just one simple solution; this will take a hybrid (some jokes?) approach. We will need to combine other energy sources; sun, water, light &amp; wind, to create a balanced energy solution. Now I sound like a politician…</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I believe that Exxon and others like them can sit back and wait for their consumers to tip the multi-faceted energy scales from oil to something else. But Green Ad’s do nothing for me.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We have to walk the walk first to bring about change- literally, walk.</p>
<p>When is bike to work day? Did I miss it?</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 12:29:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike Toner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I had an opportunity to speak to a group of graduate students earning their degree in Strategic Public Relations at George Washington University. I focused primarily on the Social Media Press Release and what steps they can take as PR professionals to create shareable, interactive news releases. Here are two questions from the class: [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Yesterday I had an opportunity to speak to a group of graduate students earning their degree in Strategic Public Relations at George Washington University. I focused primarily on the Social Media Press Release and what steps they can take as PR professionals to create shareable, interactive news releases.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here are two questions from the class:</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Sure, if you felt it would be well received you could include an SMPR as an HTML document in the body of an email; however, each journalist or blogger will vary on how they prefer to receive press releases.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">What’s your answer?</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">How would you think organizations should email SMPR formatted news? In an email, a link…?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Question #2</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">My Answer:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I am not sure how many journalists or bloggers are publishing the full text press release to begin with? Of course there are certain news sites have automated, full text postings of the press release in which the SMPR may or not be retained, depending on technical limitations of the news site. In general, I would venture to say that the SMPR does not lend itself to full text re-posting, but rather- it seems to lend itself to well-reasoned and well informed reporting, thus encouraging the journalist or blogger to use the facts presented to craft their story.</p>
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		<title>Social Networking: It Happens</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 01:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MikeToner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Truth is what we make it out to be. If social networks wish to be truly social, then we should stop talking about them and make them what, [I mean really create and make out-of social networks] what we want them to be; make our own reality. Most folks know what a real conversation looks [...]]]></description>
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<p>Truth is what we <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pragmatism#Concept_of_truth">make it</a> out to be. If social networks wish to be <span style="font-style:italic;">truly</span> social, then we should stop talking about them and make them what, [I mean really <span style="font-style:italic;">create</span> and make out-of social networks] what we want them to be; make our own reality. Most folks know what a real conversation looks like. I say, why don’t we start making online networks focused on the people, the conversation and the knowledge that can be shared among those with similar interests? There are many social networks, each with their own personality and each with a level of community involvement that mimics the real world and just as in the real world, the relationships rely on the <a href="http://pop-pr.blogspot.com/2008/02/greg-brady-gets-community.html">community</a> involvement.</p>
<p>Twitter may be the easiest case study: Twitter has undoubtedly brought like-minded individuals together. Folks who “<span style="font-style:italic;">get</span>” twitter “<span style="font-style:italic;">get twitter</span>.” Period. The microblogging network has and will continue to grow, but its users <span style="font-weight:bold;">will</span> peak. And Yes, I <a href="http://www.livingstonbuzz.com/blog/2008/02/26/overhype-alert-twitter/">agree</a> that twitter’s cool but anyone who thinks twitter will reach the same number of users as Facebook is mistaken. Twitter represents a deeper involvement in the online world, it is often referred to as <a href="http://twitter.com/djlewis">ultra-connected</a>, the same way people view Blackberry’s and refuse to get one.</p>
<p>I hope to honestly engage with all communities I&#8217;m involved in, in real life and online. </p>
<p>Social Networking: It happens to be- what you make of it.</p>
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		<title>First seek to understand, then seek to be understood.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 03:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Interpersonal communication is the process of sending and receiving information with another person.  Communication with this other person can be both verbal and nonverbal.<br /> <br />The idea is simple, but the implications are monstrous. It seems so easy to say, &#8220;I communicate well with others.&#8221; But how do you know? How do you measure your ability to communicate? How do you measure your communication success? Is it your ability to get what you want out of an interaction? Or the number of followers and friends you have on Facebook and Twitter? Google Analytics? How?<br /> <br />Let me stick to the basic idea. When you have a &#8216;personal&#8217; interaction with someone you usually send them messages, both verbally and non verbally. However, non-verbal language accounts for 90% of a total interaction. Cues are given through eye contact, vocal inflection as well as haptic interactions or the act of touching i.e. a high five or hand shake are a big part of any interaction.<br /> <br />Each of these cues offer nonverbal messages as to the person&#8217;s intentions or feelings. They also cause feelings in the receiver, whether positive or negative.</p>
<p>How much of what we reveal about ourselves in an interaction depends on how much another person is willing to reveal about themselves. When someone opens up to you with a personal secret, you are more likely to respond with something a little more in depth about yourself, right? This give-and-take principle is how we adjust the depth we are willing to dive into a certain topic within an interaction</p>
<p>How does Social Media deal with the non-verbal part of an interaction?<br /> <br />Listen more and talk less?</p>
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